… probably even with family members or friends is one of the most difficult things to do when you are a Bulimic. While everyone seems to enjoy their dish all you are concerned about is either calories, weight gain, not to get caught, not to overeat, not to be socially awkward or you are simply trapped in your own thoughts – your mind – of how not to turn this into a binge or in this “will I/should I just purge” self-questioning scenario…
This creates a lot of stress around the situation, the food, yourself. No wonder, we usually end up in the bathroom.
While I know that this will always be very difficult, I thought about some guidelines to help overcome a possible b/p. This may also help in your learning or recovery process.
1. Don’t worry about what your friends think about your choices. If you want a salad, have a salad, if you want a burger you may even have that one. (You know how forbidden food leads to binges)
2. Eat slowly and chew well. It will not only help you to digest better, but also to get full (that healthy full we usually don’t realize anymore) faster.
3. If you are done, you are done. It does not matter if you ate 1/2 or the entire menue. Who cares? It’s your body.
4. If you have reached the point at which you think, you have overeaten already, stop. I mean STOP. Don’t think “Oh, well, now it is too late anyway…now I need to purge anyway so I can have some more” You don’t have to purge just because you ate too much ONCE. Probably you haven’t even eaten too much, but you simply feel full.
5. Talk. If you talk a lot you slow down on the eating.
6. Always drink water in between bites. It helps digestion big time.
7. Enjoy the food. (I know this is a tough one)
8. Enjoy the company. You decided to go with them, so here you are.
9. Don’t take left-overs home. Unless you are 100% sure you won’t binge on them (for me 90% of the times in the past I did).
10. Remind yourself of how beautiful, unique and confident you are. You can make miracles happen.
Hope this helps.
Fight Bulimia.
Stay strong!