… is getting more and more frustrating…
I can’t sleep because I worry so so much.
I basically tried to gain a view over my financial situation… It is so not good. I really don’t need this part of my reality right now. Now, that I have decided that it is best for me to get into more intensive treatment and now that I have understood how bad my situation really is.
With Paula I hit the nail on the head today.
I told her about me reaching out and being rejected by D. I also told her how I want to be indifferent with him. I hate him so much. I just needed him to listen. 5 minutes would have been enough. Ok, so no support from there. Again I invested trust into someone who would eventually reject me if I was needy. And I learned so well not to be needy. I am mastering it. That’s why it is even more disappointing to reflect on what happened Friday. There must be something about me that I always keep falling for the wrong people, that I trust the wrong people and that I end up in painful situations over and over again.
I am so sick of it.
I wished I could finally lift myself out of this deep swallowing dirt, but I cannot do it alone. And Paula reassured me in that also. She also said that not all people were like him and that I have just been very unfortunate in my life in this respect and as a consequence now master acting out indifference. Means of self-protection. But now that I am discovering all this in therapy it does not work this easily anymore, because well-known coping mechanisms are not supposed to be an option and it is just really hard.
So, I also had an appointment at the Physician. Which did not go very well.
My heart rate is very very low. To be exact it is 48. I had an EKG done and need to get lab work done tomorrow. She said it might be that it is that low because I am exercising so much, but taking into account many other symptoms that I have developed, like dizzyness or difficulties to concentrate etc etc… she said that it might even be my heart muscle… So, I don’t know what to think or do about this. I tried to eat super healthy today and did not go to the gym although I have not been now in 2 days and feel horrible about my lazy self.
At any rate, I checked my bank accounts today and despite my excessive lifestyle of the last few months I had to realize that I am broke.
I will have about 300 dollars a months after paying for monthly expenses excluding food and personal enjoyment which I will have to eliminate from now on if I want to do treatment in December/January. I don’t even know how I will be able to do that. Because the Deductible is 250, and then I would have to cover 1750 myself in addition until my insurance covers the rest. So 2000 Dollars to save up from 300 in 3 months. I M P O S S I B L E.
I can’t sleep. I don’t know what to do now. Even if I stopped my current treatment now, I would not save the money. And since I have a loan on my car I cannot get another loan. Again, I can’t get help although I need it. And I never asked for help ever in my life so this feels extra frustrating.
I just don’t know what to do.
I want to be happy again.
I hate my life and myself so much for having been so careless about myself. I cannot understand it all anymore. Now I need to sleep but I can’t and I wished I would just wake up in a different world with all my sorrow taken away. I so so hate it to be me. I suck.